安妮·泰勒是美国当代著名的多产作家，她以书写美国中产阶级家庭中的悲欢离合著称，其作品经常成为畅销书籍。安妮·泰勒的第九部小说《思家饭店》讲述了发生在美国南方小镇巴尔的摩的波尔·塔尔一家三代人之间的故事。故事主人公波尔被丈夫抛弃后，不得不外出工作养家，同时照顾三个孩子。父亲无故离家给母亲波尔造成了身体上和精神上的伤痛。被父亲抛弃的母亲独自承担起生活的重担，却在养育孩子的过程中把这种伤痛传递给了孩子，给孩子的身体和精神带来创伤，造成了孩子性格上的种种缺陷。因而，三个孩子的成长中夹杂着兄弟之间的矛盾，女儿婚姻的不幸，母子之间的误解等。这些饱受家庭伤害的孩子在各自成家之后，又把这种家庭伤害传递给了自己的子女。

本论文旨在以女性主义的视角分析美国作家安妮·泰勒的小说《思家饭店》中的家庭伤害。通过深入分析塔尔一家的家庭伤害的根源，家庭伤害的种种表现，人们在家庭伤害中的苦苦挣扎以及他们摆脱伤害的各种努力，从而指出家庭伤害的根源不在于女性，而是推卸责任的男性。但是母亲作为家庭伤害的受害人没能正确对待家庭伤害，反而成为了新的家庭伤害的根源。

全文主要涵盖四个部分。第一部分简要介绍安妮·泰勒的生活、作品、国际国内对其作品的研究现状，以及小说《思家饭店》主要内容，并指出在女性主义视角下探讨该作品中家庭伤害的原因的意义和价值。第二部分讨论了离家的父亲把维持家庭和抚养孩子的重担推卸给了母亲，对她的身体和精神上造成了伤害，这使母亲成为家庭伤害的第一位受害者。第三部分讨论了母亲在抚养孩子的过程中，无意识地在身体和精神上伤害了孩子，造成了他们性格上的缺陷；第四部分则分析了这种家庭伤害的代际传递，探讨了治愈这种家庭伤害的可能性。结论部分，总结了父亲最初不负责任的离家出走是这种家庭伤害的根本原因，只有子女成年后逐渐理解并原谅母亲，家庭成员分担责任，相互谅解才是治愈这种家庭伤害的根本办法。

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